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Being curvy is sexy, and that’s the fact!

Being curvy, it doesn’t mean you should become fat to get the curvy body. Curvy or fat, every person is beautiful in some way. But fat something kinda lack of curves for some person. Men like ‘curvy’ women. When we say men, we mean ALL men. Women think that men like ‘slim’ women, and that ‘curvy’ means fat. Wow! For a man, talking to a woman about her body and it’s shape is like digging your own grave with your tongue. There is no way men can say to their partners ‘you have a great curvy body’, because she will automatically think men mean she is fat! So this will attempt to explain ‘curvy’ to women, and set their minds at rest. Men are completely turned on by a woman’s shape. Her shape. Not her size. Not her weight. It’s all about the ‘hour-glass’ shape.

Women are supposed to have curves and be soft to touch, because they are supposed to be opposite to men. Opposites attract. Someone who grew up in Peru, thinking that real women have curves. Real women have breasts and hips, and round bottoms. And if you do not have them, you do anything from exercises to plastic surgery to have some curves. This is specially true in Brasil where every year hundreds of women decide to go for the Brasilian’ butt treatment.

In Latin America curves are not fat. It’s not natural to have models who resemble hangers just to please untalented designers who seem to forget that hangers don’t buy clothes, but women do. It’s untalented because we believe it is easier to design for shapeless sticks than for real curvy women. Women would like to see how clothes would look on real women and not just hanging onto breastbones. Women should have should have boobs, hips and thighs. So what is the limit of curvy and fat? When do women stop being curvy and become fat? It really does not matter. The important thing is for those who are that way to use terms with which they are comfortable and happy.

Also, going against Holywood trends Salma Hayek gained weight for one of her latest movies. Unlike 99% of all actresses, Hayek gained weight for her nude scenes. She thought the character, a1930s Mexican lady, should be curvy. For this, she put on weight and she says that she has not been able to lose all of it. But she says that it is okay, she likes her new shape and she is happy with it. So, maybe this “stars” on their own way are paving the way to a new body image, where natural curves are again accepted and seen as beautiful.

There are some women who are naturally curvy, like a Beyonce, Shakira, or J-Lo. And some women need a little dieting, or exercise to find that shape. Men of all ages love to admire an hour glass body. There is something so incredibly sexy about prominent breasts, a slim waist and rounded hips. And usually the side profile is even better, as most curvy women look as if they are trying to arch their backs, and stick their buttocks out. Awesome. That is what men mean by curvy.

As long as breasts, waist, and hips are all in proportion, dress size is irrelevant. The only people who are honestly interested in whether a woman is size 0 or 10, are other women. Men are only interested in the shape of a woman’s body. Because the editors of women’s magazines are so narrow minded that every single picture in their glossy pages has to represent perfection, normal women who religiously read these pages find faults with themselves. They don’t like their hair. Its too dry or too greasy. They don’t like their eyes. They can detect fine lines and wrinkles. They don’t like their skin. Their hands are too veiny. Their shoulders too broad. Stomach too big. Breasts wrong shape. Legs too short. You get the idea. Who caused all this anxiety? Certainly not men! And ladies, if you take a look through the first few pages of your favourite magazine, the editorial staff is almost exclusively female.

So all the women we know are a little obsessed with being slim, or being the correct weight. None seem too concerned about their shape. Men want one thing. Women are trying to achieve something entirely different. Men want that slim waist. The rounded hips and buttocks. The shapely breasts. They want it all in proportion. But most men are prepared to love their woman, no matter what shape she is. If she were curvy as well as everything else, that really would put the icing on the cake. One great study in the USA was eye opening. The average American woman is 5’4″ tall, and size 14. In terms of fashion, modelling, and Hollywood, that is a plus size. Yet, if you ask men “who is the sexiest woman ever?”, Marilyn Monroe, who happened to be size 14, comes second to “my wife”. Men really think that curvy is beautiful.

Some examples of curvey ladies:
Beyoncé
Shakira
J-Lo
Monica Belluci
Cascada’s Natalie Horler
Kerry Katona
Charlotte Church

Skinny – Kiera Knightley, Victoria Beckham

Fat – Rossie O’Donell

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